To summarize, Mr. Sam's issues were alcohol, friends who were fake friends, and a Black woman who confided and worked together with Mr. Sam's friend to bring him down. Lesson learned: Don't act/play with the influence of alcohol, fear the Lord, and fear women. Most importantly, be cautious with friends and never reveal your innermost happiness. Celebrate your victories and success by yourself. Also, don't be greedy, but always have a grateful heart for those who have helped you in life. Learn to say no, not everything needs a yes response.
Thank you for interpreting. I wanted to know what happened only to realise the video audience is somehow “restricted” because of language. Great content though
Hm as a woman myself, the first and only time a man made a sexual joke at me I was disgusted he wasn’t even someone I was close to . Men sometimes have some kind of empathy.
I can tell he is just a free spirited man and u can tell he is ready to work.i know there would be a breakthrough definitely for him one day in Jesus name. God bless him .
Please and please especially those of us in abroad, we should try and at least send this gentleman something. I am going to send him 100 pounds as soon as l received his momo account. It's really hard now, but please lets us help him. God bless you all.
Advice from someone who had lived in the us for 32 year. DON'T trust any African American women. Do not under estimate them. They are very vindictive and jealous of Africans. Not all of them but be careful. Focus and educate yourself. Please go to school.
Yes!! Be very careful when you are dating these Americans or Europeans women! Make sure you know them very well and also they are aware you people are dating!!!!
Keep your 6 feet distance American women, just like covid times. I swear. You never know what they will accuse you of. They re on Tik Tok complaining that me ate avoiding them
Ah the devil is a disgusting liar. God will see hm through. Hmmm house enemies not want7ng him to move forward. But being good and kind God stands on it to rescue us.
Bro Kofi ,I really admires his courage, and I hope The Almighty will favour this time around. In Jesus mighty name , amen. Thanks for sharing this story
Very sad experience. Husbands and wives, lets learn to resolve our marital issues if we can resolve our differences instead of parting ways at the least opportunity. Now we have a man without a wife, a child with an absent dad and wife with no support. Fixing your marital issues (if possible) would have prevented all these unfortunate chain of events. May God restore you Sir.
His Spirit was speaking to him to stay home but in the desire to please his friend he left his home to go hang out and look at the chain of events. Please when it comes to your destiny always listen to your inner voice. No human being comes first when your destiny is at stake.
Thank you, you have said it all, God always speaks to us through our inner Spirit. Butttt,we always ignore the first voice...May the Lord have mercy on our brother,and open another door him
This was totally a planned deal. Why must the lady record him in the first place if there weren't any bad intentions? Lord! Have mercy. Those we call friends. Hmmmm May the Lord help him......to recover all.
I can confidently say with my hand on my chest that this man was set up by his friend. Who goes into a car to make out and have time to record. That recorder was already in the car recording, or the lady was wearing a wire that's why when he started touching her boobs, she started resisting cos he might realize what was being done. I can tell this man is genuinely a good person and thought his friends were too. it's not the ladies you have to worry about its the friends you hang out with the friends who see you succeeding and are not happy.
The man said he went into the car voluntarily. Nobody asked him to go into the car. He actually asked the lady if he could sit in the car. Pay attention, there are cracks in his story. He is only giving you his side of the story that is put together to sound good in your ears. You don’t have access to the other side (the lady’s version) of the story. Stop making a “stomach direction” judgement.
You have analysed something oooh. If this was a set up then very wicked ahh!! By his own black people. I will never advise a relative to date black American women.
@@Rockefeller-k7pSo then how was the woman able to start recording just like that. These women spoil it for women who really go through actuall abuse. She agreed for him to go in the car. Second she was introduced to him to begin a relationship. This recording is very suspect.
When it comes to sexual harassment/assault in the US, and the victim has intake of alcohol, you will lose the case. You will be told he or she is not in the right state of mind to consent
When I was younger, I was in love with America 🇺🇸 but I have had a lot of things about the USA 🇺🇸. Now, it makes me feel like i should not go to the US again. Ghana 🇬🇭 is the best country to live .
You can still go and learn 1or 2 experiences no university professor can teach and when you return to Ghana, your perspective about life,the world will change.
Bra kofi, please, thanks for this beautiful interview... The man is an honest person 🙏 He is a strong man. I like such people. Hearts of oak spirit and motto.Never Say Die
My dad gave me an advice when traveling, he said no matter what you will be identified as an African. Whether you have citizenship, whether you claimed a birth right or you were born overseas you will never be a white man. So you should know how to live a life of mediocrity. The man’s story is just sad. People living in abroad should have in mind that if we arrest a white man or an African American they won’t be deported, but African or Ghanaian women or men will be brought to your home country.
This is mentally formidable. It’s not easy for a man who had lived life and finally down to zero to share his experiences and further ask for help. Kofi, kindly follow up and bring him back to share to us his current situationz
This should also be a lesson to those out there on Europe and North America. Just be extremely careful with your lives because this could happen to anyone.
HERE'S WHAT IS TRICKING MOST GHANAIAN MEN: I believe many women in Ghana tend to be more subtle or indirect in their communication when they want a man to initiate a sexual move, possibly because they fear being judged negatively for making the first move. As a result, most men in Ghana take the initiative, not necessarily because they enjoy it or like doing things without consent, but because many women there are more reserved in such matters. However, women in other cultures are often more straightforward or direct. They will either tell you to make a move or take the initiative themselves, and with them, a "no" truly means no. So, you have to know who you are dealing with.
Yes you’re right why some men are always woman woman why don’t stay alone and solve the problem with your wife or stay with out a woman look what has been happening. Always sex sex
Kofi ..please advice this man to go into farming ..rent a farm land and do any form of farming ..eighter animal ..birds or crops ..he will be fine ..God makes a way
Such an honest man. So sorry to hear the mishaps in your life. Trusting you’ll get a chance for another opportunity. God bless you bro Kofi for bringing him on. Will definitely need an update
They do it to their own people. They are just messed up. They have been brainwashed on this matters. May be, our brother is not telling the whole truth.
You don't need no man of God,we are all man of good,all you need is to start imagining that you won the case,if you can do this 1 to 10 minutes your problem is slove.
Imagine what Africans are going through in this world, while we've everything in our country, this shows that leadership is everything, we the Africans need bold and good leaders
Uncle Sam i believe you can make it more than what the State can offer you. just believe, desire and work towards it with resilience and consistance. Ghana is best for investments
This is a man a lot of men will have to learn from especially the men in Ghana . Learn how to keep your arms to yourself . I salute him for his braveness .I hope something good will come out of it .
@@stevenbernal3228hwɛ ni gyimie bi. Some of us were trying to be nice here and you have to spew this nonsense? Let me burst your bubbles then, this man in the first place have got a questionable attitude; deduced from his speech. Let's not talk about the reason for his removal but how he conducted himself afterwards knowing very well that he was not deported but was removed and could never step foot in the US again shows a greed and carelessness. The fact is that if one refuses to take responsibility of their actions and inactions; they will never find peace until the ripples of the past is trancate.
hmm.. women. stay away my men. use the oil or pay2 do the do as a young man hustling. This man needs to think outside the box. stop looking for job and create one.
This is a sad situation, Big Sam. I'm in US and l know what he's talking about. Even if you want to have sex with your own wife and she doesn't consent and do it, she can report you for raping. Some of us have taken your number and we are going to call you for any assistance we can offer. God be with you.
I am so sorry about what happened to this brother! In the Western World, especially in America, when a woman says no, it is a no! Do not touch her! Even if she is your girlfriend and she says no, it is a no, do not force anything on her! This is not Africa, guys! Hope this will be a lesson for all our brothers in the Western World, especially in America! My brother, your story is very sad and not a coincidence. If you don't know our Lord Jesus Christ, please give yourself to Him, Amen!
This is something to be learned not just in the western world , but in Africa too. When a woman says no, she means no. You have no right to touch a woman's body without her permission.
African men like touching and hitting women without permission, so disgusting, and when you complain, people will say it's not a big deal 😒 and beware of friends and too much partying at this age and know that someone's country is not your own country even if you were born there 🙄
Y’all should stop the BS about no means no thing. Let me tell you something, what of if a woman touches a man inappropriately, do we bring up sexual harassment charges ??? Common man, it’s all straight up double standard maan 😆
I got goosebumps seeing that Colorado Drivers’ license. I once had it. I really empathize with his situation. Advice for other men especially regarding some akata women.. they’re almost always looking for easy money with lawsuits, child support, blackmail, etc. There’s definitely a way outta this. My prayers with you
Don’t make blanket generalization. If u live in North America, do u know most black women in America? I have been happily married to my queen for more than forty years plus with 2 kids & 3 grandchildren. I have led a good life. No complaints. ❤✌🏿🇺🇸🇬🇭
@@kwasi47 I said some ‘Akata’ women. Thats not blanket generalization. It’s a precautionary measure no matter how you look at it. Glad yours worked out beautifully
Actually not at all. He was criminally prosecuted. It wasn’t a civil case. Please educate yourself regarding the law. Consent is something everyone should know and not make excuses for their deviant behaviours
Here is the thing: There are certain things we take for granted in our old country but really, really get one in serious trouble in another country.Let learn and educate ourselves before we leave Home.I have seen and heard a lot of sad stories of people who out of ignorance get themselves in trouble.May Allah guide and protect us at all times wherever we are and whatever we do.
I have been through hell in the States through friends , church members and even Ghanaian pastors, bro, you're not a lone. It's a lesson to each other. Pray hard and never give up. Some friends can easily set you up, concentrate on your life and let it go with bad friends who can easily lead you to hell. I believe God will give you a second chance. Cheer up and never give up. God is with you.
If you come to the US, be cautious about how you interact with your female friends or colleagues, including your touch and your gaze, to avoid being accused of sexual harassment. It's taken very seriously here.
I believe many women in Ghana tend to be more subtle or indirect in their communication when they want a man to initiate a sexual move, possibly because they fear being judged negatively for making the first move. As a result, most men in Ghana take the initiative, not necessarily because they enjoy it or like doing things without consent, but because many women there are more reserved in such matters. However, women in other cultures are often more straightforward or direct. They will either tell you to make a move or take the initiative themselves, and with them, a "no" truly means no.
@@UchennaObikwelu-z5l thats the name Africans give to black americans. It came.from nigerians. Now every africans òn america uses it They said it supposed to means wild animal. To describe the behaviors of somes black americans.
And he plays golf.........................God just opened a way. Sent him a text, must be late in Ghana. God bless Mr Sam. Everything he lost will be gained a hundred fold.
Guys this is Big Sam. I have read most of the comments and i must say that its important for me to learn from ohther people's opinions and comments. Regardless of whether the comments was positive or negative i am grateful to you all. My fulfilment was to share my story for people to learn and not make the same mistakes i made. If this is achieved i would be satisfied,
Have you thought of going into goat, chicken, and planting farming from your village? On a small scale. I'm just thinking little money you may receive from donations.
This is really sad. He should have never taken the plea deal without speaking to an immigration lawyer. If you are out there and get into any trouble with the law, always always speak to your immigration lawyer and criminal lawyer before you take any action.
This Guy's story is sad. It's unfortunate that he forgot that he was living in the U.S. where laws matter. 1. He was not done with his estranged wife, yet he wanted to get involved with another lady. 2. He thought he could fondle the African American lady, as though he was with a Ghanaian lady in Ghana where he could easily harass her without any consequence. Big mistake.
It’s not unfortunate actually. Many men don’t understand consent. Regardless of where you are in the world any person should know the law and respect others!
It's sickly to hear Asahwos talking about me but forgets how they around taking monies from left and right. America Law will protect you but the God of Justice will take you all to hell where you came from. Evil in disguise @@QUEEN-nu8gq
I believe many women in Ghana tend to be more subtle or indirect in their communication when they want a man to initiate a sexual move, possibly because they fear being judged negatively for making the first move. As a result, most men in Ghana take the initiative, not necessarily because they enjoy it or like doing things without consent, but because many women there are more reserved in such matters. However, women in other cultures are often more straightforward or direct. They will either tell you to make a move or take the initiative themselves, and with them, a "no" truly means no.
The men should listen to this carefully. Harassing women sexually everywhere in Ghana and when they travel, they think it’s normal to do that over in Europe
Why is it that ghana people are always doing interviews or post contents on social media in their local dialect,it limits your views. A lot of people would have love to hear the conversation or listen to this man and hopefully help him out in any little way possible
Herrrrrr this man is a survival. Lord please let your blessings come down upon this man.
Amen 🙏🏽
My Gyamera, I hope you meant survivor unless Uncle Sammy is survival himself.
Amen
@@ivybannerman-wood453thanks for the correction .
Pls his number again @@jonneysurvival2973
To summarize, Mr. Sam's issues were alcohol, friends who were fake friends, and a Black woman who confided and worked together with Mr. Sam's friend to bring him down. Lesson learned: Don't act/play with the influence of alcohol, fear the Lord, and fear women. Most importantly, be cautious with friends and never reveal your innermost happiness. Celebrate your victories and success by yourself. Also, don't be greedy, but always have a grateful heart for those who have helped you in life. Learn to say no, not everything needs a yes response.
I love your comment ❤❤😊
God bless you
I have learnt alot from this comment
I had to screenshot this comment ❤
Thank you for interpreting. I wanted to know what happened only to realise the video audience is somehow “restricted” because of language. Great content though
You’re a strong man. Commit yourself to the lord and he will make your path straight
Yes
What does the lord have to do with this? Who told you he is not committed to his lord.? What is your problem???
Lots of Africans don’t understand sexual boundaries in America. Even if you tell a sexual joke at work you can lose your job.
Excaltly👍
Hm as a woman myself, the first and only time a man made a sexual joke at me I was disgusted he wasn’t even someone I was close to . Men sometimes have some kind of empathy.
Exactly! You always walk a fine line dealing with American women.
😂😂 yes , they dont
Not only American women oooo. It would surprise that our own Ghanaian women too. That’s straight up betrayal. You women are something else. Smh 🤦♂️
I can tell he is just a free spirited man and u can tell he is ready to work.i know there would be a breakthrough definitely for him one day in Jesus name. God bless him .
Am Daniel from United Kingdom same happened to me but God favour was on my side May God strength him in Jesus name🙏
Please and please especially those of us in abroad, we should try and at least send this gentleman something. I am going to send him 100 pounds as soon as l received his momo account. It's really hard now, but please lets us help him. God bless you all.
He mentioned his number at the end. That should be his momo number.. Bless you!
@@sassyyjessyy but his full name wasn't mentioned
@@charleskwasighartey8862 the full name is SAMUEL AKISI. (I know this because I tried sending him something with my local MTN number)
@@charleskwasighartey8862 SAMUEL AKISI
@@charleskwasighartey8862 it’s Samuel Akisi
Bra Kofi, Keep Interviewing People like this bcos i ve really learnt a lot from this video! 😭
🎉❤😮
Not only u my dear.. l've also learnt a lot.
I thought my life was bad till I heard this man 😢
Bro kofi eiii de3 eiii ....I love listening to people's experiences and learn from it .....this is a beautiful conversation bra kofi
Same here . Experience is the best teacher
Your last words, "and learn from it", is what we should all do in life.
Strongest man ever, wow. God will make a way Big Sam
Very good lesson for some of us who are new here in USA
U need to listen to good advice from good people around you when u are new. You can't play the system
Advice from someone who had lived in the us for 32 year. DON'T trust any African American women. Do not under estimate them. They are very vindictive and jealous of Africans. Not all of them but be careful. Focus and educate yourself. Please go to school.
Yes!! Be very careful when you are dating these Americans or Europeans women! Make sure you know them very well and also they are aware you people are dating!!!!
Keep your 6 feet distance American women, just like covid times. I swear. You never know what they will accuse you of. They re on Tik Tok complaining that me ate avoiding them
@@jemilaiddrisu5124even Africans do that
Bra. Kofi .. this man is a real man.
Life is a war ...*.Ampa*
Is very good man. I know him those days I used to live in Denver. Very decent man
Wow that’s good of you
Ah the devil is a disgusting liar. God will see hm through. Hmmm house enemies not want7ng him to move forward. But being good and kind God stands on it to rescue us.
You can see he is very honest. He is going through family curse or did not treat wife well. Wife!!!!
Could be
Bro Kofi ,I really admires his courage, and I hope The Almighty will favour this time around. In Jesus mighty name , amen. Thanks for sharing this story
Very sad experience. Husbands and wives, lets learn to resolve our marital issues if we can resolve our differences instead of parting ways at the least opportunity. Now we have a man without a wife, a child with an absent dad and wife with no support. Fixing your marital issues (if possible) would have prevented all these unfortunate chain of events. May God restore you Sir.
His Spirit was speaking to him to stay home but in the desire to please his friend he left his home to go hang out and look at the chain of events.
Please when it comes to your destiny always listen to your inner voice. No human being comes first when your destiny is at stake.
True facts
Thank you, you have said it all, God always speaks to us through our inner Spirit. Butttt,we always ignore the first voice...May the Lord have mercy on our brother,and open another door him
Life is very spiritual
This was totally a planned deal. Why must the lady record him in the first place if there weren't any bad intentions?
Lord! Have mercy. Those we call friends. Hmmmm
May the Lord help him......to recover all.
I can confidently say with my hand on my chest that this man was set up by his friend. Who goes into a car to make out and have time to record. That recorder was already in the car recording, or the lady was wearing a wire that's why when he started touching her boobs, she started resisting cos he might realize what was being done.
I can tell this man is genuinely a good person and thought his friends were too. it's not the ladies you have to worry about its the friends you hang out with the friends who see you succeeding and are not happy.
Absolutely he was set up very sad 😢
The man said he went into the car voluntarily. Nobody asked him to go into the car. He actually asked the lady if he could sit in the car. Pay attention, there are cracks in his story. He is only giving you his side of the story that is put together to sound good in your ears. You don’t have access to the other side (the lady’s version) of the story. Stop making a “stomach direction” judgement.
You are truly making sense
You have analysed something oooh. If this was a set up then very wicked ahh!! By his own black people. I will never advise a relative to date black American women.
@@Rockefeller-k7pSo then how was the woman able to start recording just like that. These women spoil it for women who really go through actuall abuse. She agreed for him to go in the car. Second she was introduced to him to begin a relationship. This recording is very suspect.
I know Big Sam, we used to call him Bro Sammy from liquid in koforidua.May God grant him Favour .
How I wish our leaders will make this place very habitable for any hardworking citizen to stay without travelling to face this trash out there.
Exactly....this is the comment i was looking for.
No need to go back to America. He needs a little support in Ghana to start his own small business. His hard work will pay off. Don't give up.
Dear God, show mercy and turn this man’s life around 🙏🏾
You are a survivor!
Keep pushing and don’t loose hope ✊🏾
Your story is an inspiration.
When it comes to sexual harassment/assault in the US, and the victim has intake of alcohol, you will lose the case. You will be told he or she is not in the right state of mind to consent
Hmm that's serious oo
Absolutely 💯
You do programs but this interview has touch me too much very sad story
When I was younger, I was in love with America 🇺🇸 but I have had a lot of things about the USA 🇺🇸. Now, it makes me feel like i should not go to the US again. Ghana 🇬🇭 is the best country to live .
You can still go and learn 1or 2 experiences no university professor can teach and when you return to Ghana, your perspective about life,the world will change.
This is very unfortunate. I wish the Ghanaian community in Denver can help with funds for him.
Bra kofi, please, thanks for this beautiful interview... The man is an honest person 🙏 He is a strong man. I like such people. Hearts of oak spirit and motto.Never Say Die
Men don’t ask for help but when they do that mean shit hit the fan
My dad gave me an advice when traveling, he said no matter what you will be identified as an African. Whether you have citizenship, whether you claimed a birth right or you were born overseas you will never be a white man. So you should know how to live a life of mediocrity. The man’s story is just sad. People living in abroad should have in mind that if we arrest a white man or an African American they won’t be deported, but African or Ghanaian women or men will be brought to your home country.
You think is Ghana that you guys take advantage of women and go scout free.
@@amigeitasabina9174hmmmmm
@@amigeitasabina9174What is the meaning of what are talking about Asahwo like you want to give advice to all men.
@amigeitasabina9174 nobody takes advantage of women my dear life is sometimes unfair n can surprise you anytime with good news or bad news
What are you saying madam @@amigeitasabina9174
This is mentally formidable. It’s not easy for a man who had lived life and finally down to zero to share his experiences and further ask for help.
Kofi, kindly follow up and bring him back to share to us his current situationz
Such a sad story. Let’s be careful about women. What a woman can do to a man, you have no idea! Good lessons to take home. Great luck Mr Sam
It’s not about being careful about women. You as a man should know self-control and comport yourself and you will be ok
@User-72430 some like to fool around women. touching touching and telling jokes to woo her on bed 😅
It’s not easy. It can happen to anyone but I like his determination.
This should also be a lesson to those out there on Europe and North America.
Just be extremely careful with your lives because this could happen to anyone.
Father Lord Jesus Christ see him through for your Glory🙏🏿
In Jesus Mighty Name Amen 👏🏽
HERE'S WHAT IS TRICKING MOST GHANAIAN MEN:
I believe many women in Ghana tend to be more subtle or indirect in their communication when they want a man to initiate a sexual move, possibly because they fear being judged negatively for making the first move.
As a result, most men in Ghana take the initiative, not necessarily because they enjoy it or like doing things without consent, but because many women there are more reserved in such matters.
However, women in other cultures are often more straightforward or direct. They will either tell you to make a move or take the initiative themselves, and with them, a "no" truly means no. So, you have to know who you are dealing with.
May GOD Deliver and favor him and May Devine helpers locate and restore him in Jesus Mighty Name
God is with you Big Sam, thanks to Kofi TV for bringing this programme to us all.. Yes there is hope
This would be a big lesson to men playing with women.
Yes
Very true
Yes you’re right why some men are always woman woman why don’t stay alone and solve the problem with your wife or stay with out a woman look what has been happening. Always sex sex
This man epitomizes strength and resilience! Wow! Good things shall come your way sir!
Kofi tell him anytime I take my pay he will receive Ghc 500 will contact him
Bro. Please help him. Alot of people are been judgemental but you want to help. Please honour it. God bless you
God bless you
God Bless You
May the almighty God bless you
I want to meet this man…is his contact available?
Wow! Such an honourable man! 🙌🏾🙏🏾🫡💌
Sometimes these women are mentally unstable, Be careful men ....Stay away from alcohol and drugs so that your judgment is not impaired...
My brother nearly became sex offender for talking to underage.
Kofi ..please advice this man to go into farming ..rent a farm land and do any form of farming ..eighter animal ..birds or crops ..he will be fine ..God makes a way
You need money to go into farming how many people will rent their lands to you to farm? Ghana ha sei it's not simple like you think
Such an honest man. So sorry to hear the mishaps in your life. Trusting you’ll get a chance for another opportunity. God bless you bro Kofi for bringing him on. Will definitely need an update
So what will that lady gain out of this, she will reap what she sow
I agree
Some people don't care about your life ,those are evil
They do it to their own people. They are just messed up. They have been brainwashed on this matters. May be, our brother is not telling the whole truth.
Thank you for sharing your experience with us. We need to learn from it. May the grace of God locate you. Amen 🙏🏾
I’m in the same boat like this man. Please pray for me. I need a powerful man of God in Ghana to pray for me
May God help you
You don't need no man of God,we are all man of good,all you need is to start imagining that you won the case,if you can do this 1 to 10 minutes your problem is slove.
AWOO SORRY EVERYTHING WILL BE FINE
You are the man of God yourself
You don’t need a man of God. You need God. May he show you mercy
Imagine what Africans are going through in this world, while we've everything in our country, this shows that leadership is everything, we the Africans need bold and good leaders
Uncle Sam i believe you can make it more than what the State can offer you.
just believe, desire and work towards it with resilience and consistance.
Ghana is best for investments
Pls try n bring more deportees to ur platform bcs der is a big education in der..God bless this man so much n provide his needs🙏
This is a man a lot of men will have to learn from especially the men in Ghana . Learn how to keep your arms to yourself . I salute him for his braveness .I hope something good will come out of it .
Selling your building immediately you were deported was the worst mistake ever in your life. May you find a genuine helper.
Don't talk like you know everything. Wait till you get into that position
@@stevenbernal3228hwɛ ni gyimie bi. Some of us were trying to be nice here and you have to spew this nonsense? Let me burst your bubbles then, this man in the first place have got a questionable attitude; deduced from his speech. Let's not talk about the reason for his removal but how he conducted himself afterwards knowing very well that he was not deported but was removed and could never step foot in the US again shows a greed and carelessness. The fact is that if one refuses to take responsibility of their actions and inactions; they will never find peace until the ripples of the past is trancate.
3nto woa da😢😢
@@boakyetv4305mese 😂😂. If it didn’t happen to you you’ll be thinking you have sense.. the LIFE HAS NO FORMULA 😢
You dey craze. You get sense pass him?
What a story from fry pan to fire 🔥 wow I wish he don't stop sharing
The spirit is high. I love that. I nearly had a similar issue in the UK.
hmm.. women. stay away my men. use the oil or pay2 do the do as a young man hustling. This man needs to think outside the box. stop looking for job and create one.
Hmmmm
@@AfrobeatsMotherland-co9wnwhere the money dey for him to create
@@tcobbold2376 😂😂😂😂😂next time wo be twe ape.
With what money?@@AfrobeatsMotherland-co9wn
Issues like this happens a lot in the military. Sexual harassment/assault is no joke..
Wallahi I nearly cried. Cos this man has been through a lot and he's still fighting
His first mistake was hanging out with akata and other nationalities. THAT MISTAKE comes with extreme consequences.
This is a sad situation, Big Sam. I'm in US and l know what he's talking about. Even if you want to have sex with your own wife and she doesn't consent and do it, she can report you for raping. Some of us have taken your number and we are going to call you for any assistance we can offer. God be with you.
I have listened to this story about 3 times and I must say am very sad. May God come through for this man, Mr Sammy
I am so sorry about what happened to this brother! In the Western World, especially in America, when a woman says no, it is a no! Do not touch her! Even if she is your girlfriend and she says no, it is a no, do not force anything on her! This is not Africa, guys! Hope this will be a lesson for all our brothers in the Western World, especially in America!
My brother, your story is very sad and not a coincidence. If you don't know our Lord Jesus Christ, please give yourself to Him, Amen!
This is something to be learned not just in the western world , but in Africa too. When a woman says no, she means no. You have no right to touch a woman's body without her permission.
Exactly my thought before I saw this comment. Don't touch inappropriately. No means no
African men like touching and hitting women without permission, so disgusting, and when you complain, people will say it's not a big deal 😒 and beware of friends and too much partying at this age and know that someone's country is not your own country even if you were born there 🙄
He should also consider private golf lessons.
Y’all should stop the BS about no means no thing. Let me tell you something, what of if a woman touches a man inappropriately, do we bring up sexual harassment charges ??? Common man, it’s all straight up double standard maan 😆
May the Good Lord hear your voice Mr. Sam
God will provide just continue to trust him
The only power you have as a man is having control over your Lust. Very sad😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Bro Kofi, I cried, and I'm still crying because I can't offer him anything.
Very sad
YAH BLESS YOU 🙌 🙏 ❤
Am in tears infact.....I pray for this man
I got goosebumps seeing that Colorado Drivers’ license. I once had it. I really empathize with his situation. Advice for other men especially regarding some akata women.. they’re almost always looking for easy money with lawsuits, child support, blackmail, etc. There’s definitely a way outta this. My prayers with you
Don’t make blanket generalization. If u live in North America, do u know most black women in America? I have been happily married to my queen for more than forty years plus with 2 kids & 3 grandchildren. I have led a good life. No complaints. ❤✌🏿🇺🇸🇬🇭
@@kwasi47 I said some ‘Akata’ women. Thats not blanket generalization. It’s a precautionary measure no matter how you look at it. Glad yours worked out beautifully
@@rinkarto the word itself is derogatory. Think about it. We Africans have utter balls to denigrate our fellow human beings.
Actually not at all. He was criminally prosecuted. It wasn’t a civil case. Please educate yourself regarding the law. Consent is something everyone should know and not make excuses for their deviant behaviours
Big Sam. God Will make a way for you where there seems to be no way
Here is the thing: There are certain things we take for granted in our old country but really, really get one in serious trouble in another country.Let learn and educate ourselves before we leave Home.I have seen and heard a lot of sad stories of people who out of ignorance get themselves in trouble.May Allah guide and protect us at all times wherever we are and whatever we do.
I have been through hell in the States through friends , church members and even Ghanaian pastors, bro, you're not a lone. It's a lesson to each other. Pray hard and never give up. Some friends can easily set you up, concentrate on your life and let it go with bad friends who can easily lead you to hell. I believe God will give you a second chance. Cheer up and never give up. God is with you.
Am coming from tiktok 🏃♀️Life is not easy, Travel and see, am very sad today 😭😭😭it is well uncle Sam
Wow! Goosebumps all over me. It’s scary. Thanks for sharing this story. I’ll learn from it.
Oh brother Kofi God bless you for your good work
Can big Sam start teaching golf in Ghana?
Make he find something to settle rent then things first
Golf ain’t a thing in Ghana bro
Hello Bro Kofi, mo ne Adwuma❤👏🏾
If you come to the US, be cautious about how you interact with your female friends or colleagues, including your touch and your gaze, to avoid being accused of sexual harassment. It's taken very seriously here.
I believe many women in Ghana tend to be more subtle or indirect in their communication when they want a man to initiate a sexual move, possibly because they fear being judged negatively for making the first move.
As a result, most men in Ghana take the initiative, not necessarily because they enjoy it or like doing things without consent, but because many women there are more reserved in such matters.
However, women in other cultures are often more straightforward or direct. They will either tell you to make a move or take the initiative themselves, and with them, a "no" truly means no.
@@GoalNews-mh4wl my simple advice is no your limit and just be careful.
@@mark-cardosobamfodinho7648leave them, they think europe and usa is africa. some men even give birth and avoid their responsibilities 😢
I just send him something little
More blessings dear 🙏 ❤
God bless you
@@Sandrakyeraa-d2z Medaase
@@Amos_Quito Medaase
Big Sammy, have faith ! God will definitely see him through.
This is why I'm more scared of Akata women than the police.
Hmmm Akata
What did he say? I don't understand his language
@@UchennaObikwelu-z5l thats the name Africans give to black americans. It came.from nigerians. Now every africans òn america uses it
They said it supposed to means wild animal. To describe the behaviors of somes black americans.
Black American women are okay. It is the white ones who do such things. I think the brother did something to her.
And he plays golf.........................God just opened a way. Sent him a text, must be late in Ghana. God bless Mr Sam. Everything he lost will be gained a hundred fold.
Please bring such interviews for us to learn more
Guys this is Big Sam. I have read most of the comments and i must say that its important for me to learn from ohther people's opinions and comments. Regardless of whether the comments was positive or negative i am grateful to you all. My fulfilment was to share my story for people to learn and not make the same mistakes i made. If this is achieved i would be satisfied,
Sorry about what you've had to go through, Sir.
Have you thought of going into goat, chicken, and planting farming from your village? On a small scale. I'm just thinking little money you may receive from donations.
While going back to America. Do not waste your money on lawyers.
Hmmm life. I am sure your biggest regret is not staying home that night to do your homework and following your friend out. . Wishing the best in life
The friend and the girl set him up
This is quite unfortunate! I am heartbroken already after watching this interview. Great lesson for us all.
I love that fighting spirit....God has already made a way Big Sam!!!!
This is really sad. He should have never taken the plea deal without speaking to an immigration lawyer. If you are out there and get into any trouble with the law, always always speak to your immigration lawyer and criminal lawyer before you take any action.
@@hardworker1503 felony or misdemeanor?
@@bani491 felony. It is dismissed but the immigration wants it vacated.
@@hardworker1503please are you the man Bra kofi is interviewing now
God is calling you to walk with Him my brother ❤
😂😂😂😂
Life is more spiritual than physical..
We can only get the respect we deserve only in our country
This man is very Good ❤
You are a very hardworking guy! America is the greatest country!! Sorry for what happened to you 🙏👏🏾
With God all things are possible.
Wooow this man is a Hero ❤
This Guy's story is sad. It's unfortunate that he forgot that he was living in the U.S. where laws matter. 1. He was not done with his estranged wife, yet he wanted to get involved with another lady. 2. He thought he could fondle the African American lady, as though he was with a Ghanaian lady in Ghana where he could easily harass her without any consequence. Big mistake.
Exactly!
That’s the problem
It’s not unfortunate actually. Many men don’t understand consent. Regardless of where you are in the world any person should know the law and respect others!
It's sickly to hear Asahwos talking about me but forgets how they around taking monies from left and right. America Law will protect you but the God of Justice will take you all to hell where you came from. Evil in disguise @@QUEEN-nu8gq
I believe many women in Ghana tend to be more subtle or indirect in their communication when they want a man to initiate a sexual move, possibly because they fear being judged negatively for making the first move.
As a result, most men in Ghana take the initiative, not necessarily because they enjoy it or like doing things without consent, but because many women there are more reserved in such matters.
However, women in other cultures are often more straightforward or direct. They will either tell you to make a move or take the initiative themselves, and with them, a "no" truly means no.
eeee Bra Kofi, this man needs the support of the government because he has tried his best.
Government of Ghana? Chaley…
The men should listen to this carefully. Harassing women sexually everywhere in Ghana and when they travel, they think it’s normal to do that over in Europe
Exactly
Mr. Sam wasn’t sharp enough to realize it was a trap. His wife and friends knew his weaknesses all too well and used them to set him up. Period.
This story is deep, only mature people will understand 😢😢😢😢😢
Masa even if you no mature u go understand
@@mohammedsalis2523😂😂wei nso deep.
Why is it that ghana people are always doing interviews or post contents on social media in their local dialect,it limits your views. A lot of people would have love to hear the conversation or listen to this man and hopefully help him out in any little way possible